Ever hear someone online blog about some sort of "magical" seduction strategy ... and you can tell they are speaking more from theory than they are the real world?
You gotta be careful.
A lot of what sounds good ... doesn't actually play well in the real world. A good example of this is: The idea that you are supposed to go around "negging" women.
When most guys do that ... they just sound like someone with no social skill or savvy.
Instead of being playful and funny with it ... they just sound mean. And of course, that doesn't work well in the real-world.
Why?
Because most level-headed women don't go out hoping to meet a guy who sounds mean.
Playful? Yes.
Fun? Yes.
Mean? Nope.
And here's the thing most guys don't get:
One guy can say something and it sounds fun and playful and another guy says the same exact thing ...
And he sounds like he's someone who never acquired any social savvy whatever.
So before you try out any seduction strategy ... whether you want to seduce your ex girlfriend back to you OR you want to be able to approach and meet new women ...
Make sure that it applies in the real world.
If it just sounds good ...
It probably ain't good.
