So we're going to look at 4 simple conversation starters that you can use right now.
They're going to be simple. And they might not immediately impress guys who are still convinced that talking to a woman is like rocket science.
But the fact that they are so basic and simple is a good thing.
It means you DON'T have to learn for years what to do. You can go out tonight and have conversation at your fingertips.
First conversation starter is:
Hi!
Yeah. This is actually my favorite one. And it's the one I "go to" most often. I know. It's probably "disappointing" if you were hoping for some kind of wicked NLP pattern.
But guess what?
Saying Hi is the easiest way to get conversation started. It's proven. It works. And even most guys who go out at first with their book filled with lines eventually come full circle to the realization that Hi was all they ever really needed.
Why wait till you get to that point?
Why not just start there?
Say Hi.
See what happens.
The Second conversation starter is:
Talk about your surroundings.
Wherever you are, you have surroundings. And there's always something to talk about. Even if it comes across as mundane. Even if it's something you think won't impress.
It doesn't matter.
The point is just to get her talking. Say you are standing in line somewhere and they've got background music playing. Use that to start a conversation. Ask her what the song is. Or make a funny comment about it.
I've been in line at supermarkets and used whatever was on the cover of one of those celebrity gossip magazines to start a conversation with a woman in front or behind me.
There's always something.
So use it.
The Third conversation starter is:
Give her a meaningful but not obvious compliment.
What do I mean by this? And don't most so-called PUA guys online say you should never compliment a woman?
Ha!
What do they know?
Most women get shallow compliments from guys. Things like, "You're pretty," and whatever. So those kinds of compliments kind of don't land well. But? If you spot something about her that most guys wouldn't notice and use that to compliment her?
It means something.
And it lands.
I was in line at a club. And this woman in front of me had this hemp bracelet on her wrist. I used that to compliment her and start the conversation.
Turns out ... she made it.
And it made her day to get complimented on it.
When we went in?
We started hanging out. And of course, I ended up with her number. The same can happen for you. Don't be like most guys. And don't be like those so-called PUAs who just don't know what they don't know.
Make compliments meaningful and they'll kick-start a conversation.
Almost every single time.
Finally, the Fourth conversation starter is ...
The casual soft bump.
I hate to admit that I do this from time to time. But hey ... sometimes you are just "out" of ideas, right? A very soft bump will start a conversation. Just don't bump her in the wrong areas, if you know what I mean.
It's usually best used in a crowded spot or in a line.
And of course, it has to be non-threatening.
But sometimes, that's all you got and guess what? It still works!
Hope this helped. Starting conversation ain't rocket science. Some of the best there are at talking to women are far from being Einstein. So if they can do it, why can't you?
