Why I don't do magic tricks to try to seduce women ...

Okay so if you were to go back maybe 10-12 years ago,  the top "seduction" guys posting stuff online were mostly wannabe performers of some kind.  And for some odd reason,  a lot of 'em were into magic.  You know ... the make a card appear and disappear kind?

So a lot of guys got this idea that,  in order to get good at seduction,  they had to go out and become magicians themselves.

Only thing is ...

Most of 'em can't do magic.

And neither can I.

That's never been much of a problem for me.

Wanna know why?

I never tried to use magic tricks as a way to seduce women.  Why would I?  I can't make cards disappear.  I can't pull stuff from a hat.  And I certainly can't levitate.

Cool thing is,  you don't need to know magic to seduce a woman.

Most guys who are genuinely good at getting women are NOT magicians.

You have to know yourself.

And know what you are good at.

Myself?

I'm good at making conversation.

So that's kind of "my thing" and I don't stray too far from it.

What are you good at and how can you use that to get better with women?  Because,  let's be honest here ... most of us aren't magicians nor do we want to be magicians.

Thankfully ...

It's not like every woman in the world's looking for David Copperfield.

Sarah Shahi looking sexy for GQ ...

Hey ...

If you need any inspiration for learning more about what female attraction secrets really work,  this video with Sarah Shahi might do the trick.  Sure,  you might not meet her when you go out.  But what if you meet a woman who looks a lot like her?  Would you know what to do?  Would you know what to say?

Here's the video:

4 Simple conversation starters you can use right now ...

Let's be real about something.  Most guys make the act of talking to a woman way harder than it should ever be.  They wait and wait and wait.  Hoping that one day they'll come across some sort of magical line that they can use that'll guarantee they can get any woman they want.  Of course,  that kind of a line doesn't exist.  And it doesn't need to exist.  It would only need to exist if talking to a woman was on par with alchemy.  And it's not.

So we're going to look at 4 simple conversation starters that you can use right now.

They're going to be simple.  And they might not immediately impress guys who are still convinced that talking to a woman is like rocket science.

But the fact that they are so basic and simple is a good thing.

It means you DON'T have to learn for years what to do.  You can go out tonight and have conversation at your fingertips.

First conversation starter is:

Hi!

Yeah.  This is actually my favorite one.  And it's the one I "go to" most often.  I know.  It's probably "disappointing" if you were hoping for some kind of wicked NLP pattern.

But guess what?

Saying Hi is the easiest way to get conversation started.  It's proven.  It works.  And even most guys who go out at first with their book filled with lines eventually come full circle to the realization that Hi was all they ever really needed.

Why wait till you get to that point?

Why not just start there?

Say Hi.

See what happens.

The Second conversation starter is:

Talk about your surroundings.

Wherever you are,  you have surroundings.  And there's always something to talk about.  Even if it comes across as mundane.  Even if it's something you think won't impress.

It doesn't matter.

The point is just to get her talking.  Say you are standing in line somewhere and they've got background music playing.  Use that to start a conversation.  Ask her what the song is.  Or make a funny comment about it.

I've been in line at supermarkets and used whatever was on the cover of one of those celebrity gossip magazines to start a conversation with a woman in front or behind me.

There's always something.

So use it.

The Third conversation starter is:

Give her a meaningful but not obvious compliment.

What do I mean by this?  And don't most so-called PUA guys online say you should never compliment a woman?

Ha!

What do they know?

Most women get shallow compliments from guys.  Things like,  "You're pretty,"  and whatever.  So those kinds of compliments kind of don't land well.  But?  If you spot something about her that most guys wouldn't notice and use that to compliment her?

It means something.

And it lands.

I was in line at a club.  And this woman in front of me had this hemp bracelet on her wrist.  I used that to compliment her and start the conversation.

Turns out ... she made it.

And it made her day to get complimented on it.

When we went in?

We started hanging out.  And of course,  I ended up with her number.  The same can happen for you.  Don't be like most guys.  And don't be like those so-called PUAs who just don't know what they don't know.

Make compliments meaningful and they'll kick-start a conversation.

Almost every single time.

Finally,  the Fourth conversation starter is ...

The casual soft bump.

I hate to admit that I do this from time to time.  But hey ... sometimes you are just "out" of ideas,  right?  A very soft bump will start a conversation.  Just don't bump her in the wrong areas,  if you know what I mean.

It's usually best used in a crowded spot or in a line.

And of course,  it has to be non-threatening.

But sometimes,  that's all you got and guess what?  It still works!

Hope this helped.  Starting conversation ain't rocket science.  Some of the best there are at talking to women are far from being Einstein.  So if they can do it,  why can't you?

Craig Ferguson flirting with Alice Eve ...

Craig Ferguson's a funny guy.  I'm not big on watching late-night talk shows.  His was one I'd catch if I was up late and wanted to watch something a little bit funny.  One thing about Craig is ... he can't help but to flirt with some of the actresses that came on his show.  And really who could blame him.

Watch this one:

It's a good example of being funny without acting like a complete clown.  Now,  obviously,  he wasn't trying to hook up with her.  Still,  if you want to see a decent example of how to use a little humor without coming off like a jester,  it's worth watching.

It's silly to get all worked up about Facebook flirting ...

This goes for Facebook and just about all social media.  It's silly for guys to get all worked up about flirting on there - whether they are amped because they are flirting with a woman they like or they are upset because their girlfriend is flirting with someone.  So many silly relationship dramas come about all because of some little thing that happened on Facebook and when you look at it from a rational perspective,  it was really much ado about nothing.

Personally,  I don't bother with social networking.  It's kind of hard to play the field and have social networking accounts,  because it's inevitable that women you date are going to interact with each other and I've found the BEST way to handle it is to just not have an account.  But if you do have one - don't make it more important than it really is.

The best seduction strategy is based on what works in the real world not what sounds good ...

Ever hear someone online blog about some sort of "magical" seduction strategy ... and you can tell they are speaking more from theory than they are the real world?

You gotta be careful.

A lot of what sounds good ... doesn't actually play well in the real world.  A good example of this is:  The idea that you are supposed to go around "negging" women.

When most guys do that ... they just sound like someone with no social skill or savvy.

Instead of being playful and funny with it ... they just sound mean.  And of course,  that doesn't work well in the real-world.

Why?

Because most level-headed women don't go out hoping to meet a guy who sounds mean.

Playful?  Yes.

Fun?  Yes.

Mean?  Nope.

And here's the thing most guys don't get:

One guy can say something and it sounds fun and playful and another guy says the same exact thing ...

And he sounds like he's someone who never acquired any social savvy whatever.

So before you try out any seduction strategy ... whether you want to seduce your ex girlfriend back to you OR you want to be able to approach and meet new women ...

Make sure that it applies in the real world.

If it just sounds good ...

It probably ain't good.