It's silly to get all worked up about Facebook flirting ...

This goes for Facebook and just about all social media.  It's silly for guys to get all worked up about flirting on there - whether they are amped because they are flirting with a woman they like or they are upset because their girlfriend is flirting with someone.  So many silly relationship dramas come about all because of some little thing that happened on Facebook and when you look at it from a rational perspective,  it was really much ado about nothing.

Personally,  I don't bother with social networking.  It's kind of hard to play the field and have social networking accounts,  because it's inevitable that women you date are going to interact with each other and I've found the BEST way to handle it is to just not have an account.  But if you do have one - don't make it more important than it really is.

The best seduction strategy is based on what works in the real world not what sounds good ...

Ever hear someone online blog about some sort of "magical" seduction strategy ... and you can tell they are speaking more from theory than they are the real world?

You gotta be careful.

A lot of what sounds good ... doesn't actually play well in the real world.  A good example of this is:  The idea that you are supposed to go around "negging" women.

When most guys do that ... they just sound like someone with no social skill or savvy.

Instead of being playful and funny with it ... they just sound mean.  And of course,  that doesn't work well in the real-world.

Why?

Because most level-headed women don't go out hoping to meet a guy who sounds mean.

Playful?  Yes.

Fun?  Yes.

Mean?  Nope.

And here's the thing most guys don't get:

One guy can say something and it sounds fun and playful and another guy says the same exact thing ...

And he sounds like he's someone who never acquired any social savvy whatever.

So before you try out any seduction strategy ... whether you want to seduce your ex girlfriend back to you OR you want to be able to approach and meet new women ...

Make sure that it applies in the real world.

If it just sounds good ...

It probably ain't good.

An oldie but goodie Maxim photo shoot video with Kaley Cuoco ...

Here's some eye candy for ya.  And realize,  that even though you may not be able to go out and meet and seduce Kaley Cuoco herself ... there are still plenty of women in her league who are not famous actresses that you can meet.  And if you've got the goods ...

Well,  let's just say you can have a lot of fun.

Here's the video:

One thing you don't wanna do is get stuck in "fantasy land."  Use videos like these to inspire you to become an action taker.  Be that guy who can approach a woman who's in Kaley or any other actress' league and get at least a good conversation started.

Then,  learn how to advance that conversation so you are not just another guy she talked to.

Have fun!