Taylor Swift's GQ Photoshoot Video

Here's a little "eye candy" for you.  Taylor Swift clip from her photoshoot with GQ Magazine.

3 things about seducing women you can only learn from experience ...

You can't learn everything about seduction from reading books,  watching videos,  or buying courses.  But that's what a lot of guys try to do.  They try to read their way to getting good with women and it just doesn't work like that. 

In this post,  I'm going to share 3 things that you really only can learn from experience.

1.  You can only learn how to read a woman's body language by actually being around her.

All the diagrams in the world can't really do what just a few minutes being around women can tell ya about body language.  In fact,  most of the time,  what you read about it will just confuse you.  It's far better to actually get out there and learn to read a woman's body language in the field.

Here's one of the many bad examples popular sites like WikiHow has about reading body language: http://www.wikihow.com/Read-Women's-Body-Language-for-Flirting

Go ahead and read it.  Do you feel like you actually learned anything useful?  Probably not.  And you'll know when you get out in the field.  Because you'll realize that just about everything you read on a site was useless and you don't know what to do.

2.  You can only learn how to work a group by actually working a group.

I have a lot of experience working small groups and you know what?  I feel lost when I read or hear about it.  Because it's something that you get a feel for.  It's not an intellectual exercise with steps that you memorize.

I remember hanging out once with a guy who'd just read a lot of stuff about group game.  And he swore he knew it all.  But when we approached a group?  He stood there like a statue and didn't say a damn thing.

You never want to be that guy and the only way to make sure you aren't?  Get out in the field.

3.  You can only learn how to bounce back from getting a cold response from a woman by working in the field.

This is something that stings and shocks most guys who are all book and no action.  They get shot down and they don't know how to bounce back from it.  Most of the time,  it means their entire night is done.

If you don't want that to happen to you?

Then you gotta learn how to deal with it in real time.  You have to learn how to shrug it off and actually move on over to the next woman.

Another one with Craig Ferguson flirting with an interviewee

You can have a lot of fun just sitting back and watching clips of Craig Ferguson flirting with all the hot actresses that used to come on his show.  Here's another one with Kate Mara.